The latest figures from the Brazilian Institute of Geography and Statistics (IBGE) reveal important changes in the emotional behavior of Brazilians. According to civil registry statistics, the total number of official marriages decreased by 3% compared to 2022, while the number of divorces reached 440.8 thousand registrations, an increase of 4.9% in the same period.
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This trend is most pronounced in the Southeast, which showed the largest decline in marriages (-5.0%). The increase in breakups was most significant in the Center and West (16.8%) and North (13.1%) regions, indicating a shift in the way Brazilians view romantic relationships and long-term commitment.
For emotional behaviorist Caio Bettencourt, there are a series of factors behind these numbers. “It is important to understand that behind these numbers, there are several complex issues that can lead to the end of a marriage. The immaturity of younger men is one of the factors that complicates any relationship, and when coupled with financial and emotional instability, the situation gets worse.”
New arrangements and the search for stability
With an increase in divorces and financial difficulties affecting marital life, new forms of relationships are beginning to gain ground, including so-called sugar relationships. This model, which is becoming increasingly popular, involves partnerships between people seeking financial security and a relationship with well-defined roles: The Sugar Daddy, an older, successful man, offers comfort and stability to the Sugar Baby, who is generally younger.
According to data from the MeuPatrocínio platform, about 89% of divorced users say they are looking for a serious relationship, built on transparency and clear goals, without games or idealized romantic fantasies.
“After experiencing breakup headaches, these people begin to look for practicality. They avoid complications, preferring simplicity and lightness that can easily be found in sugar relationships,” Caio explains.
What causes spouses to divorce?
International studies help to better understand the causes of these ruptures. Research published in Journal of Social and Personal Relations He points out that many of the problems that lead to divorce actually appear in the early stages of dating, and tend to get worse over time. Among the main reasons are the following:
Financial difficulties: Economic instability is one of the most common reasons for separation. The stress of money (or lack thereof) directly affects a couple’s sense of security and expectations for the future.
Lack of communication: When dialogue breaks down, misunderstandings arise. Without space for honest conversations, the accumulation of frustrations undermines coexistence and increases emotional distance.
Lack of intimacySexual life is an essential part of the emotional connection between partners. When desire cools and physical contact decreases, the relationship loses its vitality.
Addictions and destructive behaviors: Dependence on alcohol, drugs, or other harmful habits weakens trust and stability, making living together more difficult.
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For Caio, the emotional and economic aspects are closely linked. He concludes: “The combination of money, happiness and a good marriage does exist. On the contrary, financial problems can be responsible for separation and frustration. This is why we see that financially stable couples are happier; not worrying about money causes less frustration and this increases satisfaction and good mood.”
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