Boom season 3 envious We are once again confronted with that emotion that most of us are ashamed to assume we feel: envy.
It’s always said that Feeling envious is different from feeling jealous. Since I never understood how different they were, I went back to researching (i.e. Googling), and found a passage by Rolón that at this point we can consider him the psychotherapist of all Argentines.
He explained that envy is destructive and occurs in a relationship that only exists between two people: You want what the other person has, but spread it. If they are two pieces of candy, you will not accept each having its own candy, but rather want the other. And if the other person has it and you don’t, you’d rather have the candy rot before the other person can enjoy it. Because if you don’t have it, you don’t want anyone to have it. Make it clear that the beautiful example is mine and Rulon has nothing to do with this.
And to continue on the “Let’s talk without knowing, but I’m very good at Googling” train, Lacan, Freud’s student, said: Desire is the desire of the other. What does that mean? You want something that the other person has or wants, but if the other person doesn’t want or have it, do you really want it?
continuous. On the other hand, jealousy is what those who know say They have a fairly loving spice: The person he loves does not want to love a third person. It is said that a jealous person deposits a great deal of love in another person until he no longer loves himself. namely, Jealousy is also a lack of self-love. And sometimes it may happen that this lack of self-love makes us believe that the other person whom our loved one loves is a much better choice than ourselves.
One day I thought that even though I am not competitive when it comes to sports, gaming, etc., I can compete with the links that interest me. I’ve always been a little tormented by the idea Who loves who more?. Fortunately I am doing therapy and working on it. Just because, I admit I’m jealous. I don’t know if I’m envious, sometimes it all gets mixed up. But that’s what always happened to me.
For example, as a girl I was jealous of my mother’s love for my brother: she held him, kissed him, held him, and I A fire burned inside me that filled me with pain I didn’t know how to deal with it. Then I felt desperate and cried uncontrollably “I have taquito”. That was the name I gave these feelings because I was three years old and couldn’t handle the phrase “I’m so jealous.” My mother laughed because she did not quite understand what was happening to me and I did not know what to do.
When I grow up I will still try to see How to manage that emotion Which sometimes surprises me when it shows up… For example: My daughter took a lot of stuff in December and her friend took none. This actually made me jealous. Or envy? I’m still confused.
After the cardboard, her friend asked her if she had given up. “First Certificate” I don’t even know how to spell it. Her friend passed all the exams, including this one in English, and I’m sure she also got a scholarship to an important university and I wouldn’t be surprised if she was also a member of a sports federation. Yes like that A little touch made my blood boil, It could be.
The worst thing is that I never got close to getting my first degree. Although I also understand that it would be a bit strange if my blood was interested in giving it up.
Same with sports. One day it also happened to me with my son: I went to take him to an activity and his friends received another mother with much more joy than they had received me. I felt strange, the bullet entered me: “Dahlia, are you really jealous about this?” Yes. And I can’t help him.
last: A friend lost weight. I don’t even have it as one of my goals, but the Wi-Fi signal I feel is set better every time, and I think it was envyAnd why did I do that and I didn’t, and I started thinking: “OZEMPIC must have nailed it (google Ozempic), because she’s one of me and loves to eat and doesn’t have a complete record of ‘up to here’.” If you stop the injection it will have a rebound effect, dear mother.“.
But no, Ozempic doesn’t seem to have anything to do with improving your healthy habits. Do it Dalita.
There are those who say that “there are no positive and negative feelings.” But there are more comfortable and uncomfortable feelings to feel. Especially when you’re a nervous, guilty person like me and You end up feeling like shit. But it’s also important not to deny what’s happening to you.
The positive thing in all of this is that jealousy, envy, jealousy, envy, or that combination that sometimes occurs, can be a good compass for better understanding where your desire is headed.