Using obscene language during sex, otherwise known as foul talka powerful tool for increasing excitement, pleasure, and intensity of emotion, as long as it is consensual and takes place in an environment of mutual trust.
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According to sexologist Alessandra Araújo, the secret is not in the words themselves, but in the emotional delivery and intention behind them. “It’s a role-playing game that requires complicity and well-defined boundaries,” he explains.
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Domain and control language
For those who want to break the routine and get their adrenaline pumping, phrases that control their partner’s pleasure are perfect:
- “I obey, Boom.” – Emphasizing strength and submission.
- “You’re mine now!” – Intensifying desire and feeling of possession.
- “Come on, show me what you want, dog!” – Shocking and challenging the partner.
- “Calm down you bastard, I’m deciding the time!” – Increased frustration and anticipation.
The language of surrender and lack
Expressing a loss of control or intense need also elicits significant arousal:
- “You’re driving me crazy, you bastard!” – Expresses the uncontrollable power of pleasure.
- “Don’t stop you fucking hottie!” – It shows the vital need for this act.
- “Oh, you bastard!” – He recognizes the partner as irresistible.
- “Do it again, I need it, you bastard!” -Intensification of physical need and desire.
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Rules for dirty talk – insults
Alessandra confirms that foul talk It is only fun and healthy if there are clear rules:
- Preverbal agreement: agreement on which words are welcome and which words are forbidden.
- Non-verbal attention: Body language is more important than words; Discomfort indicates that boundaries have been crossed.
- Intent: The insult should be directed at the character the partner is playing, never at the core of the person.
“The sexiest thing to do is to stop and check in with your partner and make sure the pleasure is mutual and safe,” the expert warns.